{"id":1095,"date":"2024-04-02T18:50:16","date_gmt":"2024-04-02T18:50:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/?p=1095"},"modified":"2024-08-07T15:46:06","modified_gmt":"2024-08-07T15:46:06","slug":"conflict-nee-toch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/index.php\/2024\/04\/02\/conflict-nee-toch\/","title":{"rendered":"Conflict? Nee toch\u2026.."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p>&#8220;Ik pas me gewoon aan, geen zin in gedoe&#8221; en ondertussen wordt er stress en spanning opgebouwd. Ik kom het best vaak tegen. Vrouwen die ik mocht coachen en die zich voortdurend aanpassen omdat ze bang zijn in een conflict verzeild te raken. Bovendien wil je ook aardig gevonden worden. Natuurlijk.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Comfortabel?<\/strong><br \/>\nMisschien ben jij wel degene die op een verjaardag zich terugtrekt omdat jij je de hele avond ergert aan \u00e9\u00e9n of meerdere personen en je niet durft te mengen in het gesprek, omdat jij je mening niet durf te uiten.<br \/>\nOf die collega op je werk die graag conflicten op zoekt, waar jij een afschuw van hebt. Die docent, partner, medespeler uit je team, of\u2026..<br \/>\nE\u00e9n ding is zeker, jij voelt je er niet comfortabel bij.<br \/>\nJe wilt er ten diepste wel wat van zeggen, maar hoe?<br \/>\nJe vindt er echt wel wat van maar wilt de ander niet kwetsen en je wilt ook niet een gevoel van afwijzing ervaren.<br \/>\nJe weet eigenlijk ook wel dat je niet afgewezen wordt, maar toch\u2026het gevoel overheerst wel.<br \/>\nJij wilt gewoon aardig gevonden, toch? Geloof me, dat is nog heel normaal ook.<br \/>\nEn toch\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Weet je dat jij dit kunt veranderen?<br \/>\n<\/strong>Weet je dat dit gedrag vaak voortkomt uit bepaalde overtuigingen die jij over jezelf hebt?<br \/>\nWeet jezelf wat jij met dit gedrag uit de weg gaat?<br \/>\nWeet je dat de ander overal mee lijkt weg te komen, maar de kans groot is dat ondertussen steeds minder mensen oprecht en goed contact hebben met degene? Het zou zomaar tot een eenzaam gevoel kunnen leiden voor hem of haar.<br \/>\nWeet je dat jij beter het gesprek aan kunt gaan?<br \/>\nWeet je dat in veel gevallen, relaties hierdoor verbeteren?<\/p>\n<p>Weet je dat je op een hele vriendelijke en heldere wijze het gesprek aan kunt gaan zodat jij jezelf daar ook nog comfortabel bij voelt?<br \/>\nMisschien weet jij niet hoe je dat moet doen.<br \/>\nOf je doet het al jaren zo en denkt dat dit niet te veranderen is.<br \/>\nZou je het willen veranderen?<br \/>\nDurf je de stap te zetten om hier voorgoed een verandering in aan te brengen?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1096 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/Maybe-we-should-talkexchange-of-ideas-796139_1280-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Ik pas me gewoon aan, geen zin in gedoe&#8221; en ondertussen wordt er stress en spanning opgebouwd. 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