{"id":744,"date":"2023-12-18T22:20:16","date_gmt":"2023-12-18T22:20:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/?p=744"},"modified":"2024-08-07T17:58:58","modified_gmt":"2024-08-07T17:58:58","slug":"744","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/index.php\/2023\/12\/18\/744\/","title":{"rendered":"Luisterend oor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9CHT luisteren is een vaardigheid die je als coach niet mag missen. Dat weten we allemaal. Om de coachvraag helder te krijgen, goed aan te sluiten bij de behoefte van de coachee en patronen te kunnen doorbreken moet je OMA (oordeel, mening, advies) thuis laten. Onderstaand gedicht verwoord dat mooi en ik wil het jullie niet ontnemen. Niet alleen als coach is het onmisbaar maar ook als ouder, vriend, vriendin, partner, collega of wie dan ook. Het is goed om te beseffen dat je met stil zijn en \u00e9cht luisteren, vaak meer bereikt dan het geven van oplossingen, adviezen en je eigen ervaringen te delen.<\/p>\n<p>Luisteren<em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">en jij begint mij adviezen te geven<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">dan doe je niet wat ik je vraag.<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">en jij begint mij te vertellen waarom<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">ik iets niet zo moet voelen als ik het voel,<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">dan neem je mijn gevoelens niet serieus.<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">en jij denkt dat je iets moet doen om<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">mijn problemen op te lossen,<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">dan laat je mij in de steek,<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">hoe vreemd dat ook mag lijken<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-style: inherit;\"><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">Dus, alsjeblieft, luister alleen maar naar<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">me en probeer me te begrijpen.<\/em><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>En als je wilt praten, wacht dan even en<\/em><em style=\"font-style: inherit;\"><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">ik beloof je dat ik op mijn beurt naar jou<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">zal luisteren.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Gedicht van Leo Buscaglia<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-745 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Luisteren-Arina-foto-235x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"235\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9CHT luisteren is een vaardigheid die je als coach niet mag missen. 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Onderstaand gedicht verwoord dat mooi en ik wil het jullie [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":748,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-744","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Luisterend oor - Bezin &amp; Bloei<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bezinenbloei.nl\/index.php\/2023\/12\/18\/744\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"nl_NL\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Luisterend oor - Bezin &amp; Bloei\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u00c9CHT luisteren is een vaardigheid die je als coach niet mag missen. 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